We have learned that many brides are not aware that most churches and synagogues have policies concerning what can and cannot be done at a wedding, so we’ve compiled a list of things to be aware of when planning your wedding in a church or synagogue.
Policies for Church Weddings
- Typically, a church will not allow permanently attached furniture to be moved.
- No thumbtacks or nails can be driven into the woodwork, nor can anything be used to deface it.
- Saucers and mats must be placed under all palms or floral arrangements that will rest on the floor or carpeting.
- All arrangements for music, the ceremony and planned decorations must be submitted in advance and are subject to the approval of the priest, minister or rabbi. Many churches have a wedding coordinator with whom the bride will work. This coordinator can be a great source of what’s possible and what isn’t.
- Floral arrangements or candles that require taping to the pews may be forbidden.
- Many churches require that decorations be kept to a minimum so as not to detract from the dignity of the sanctuary.
- More and more churches are asking that no photographs be taken during the ceremony.
- To facilitate movement to the reception after the ceremony, many are requesting that fees be paid prior to the ceremony or at the rehearsal.
Remember that each church or venue is likely to have its own set of requirements. Your wedding is expected to follow them, so getting acquainted with the church’s coordinator or the officiating celebrant will in advance of the ceremony is to everyone’s advantage.
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